Once you spend enough time with someone, you might notice a certain pattern in other's behavior. Maybe a certain way they smile. A hand gesture. A word or phrase they often say. A while back I spent an intense month with 3 colleagues from abroad. Not only at work, but we'd also hang out in … Continue reading Typical you’s
I'm basically Mike Tyson. Other "What I would on FB if I still had it": Things I would write on Facebook if I still had it #1 What I’d write on Facebook if I still had it #2 What I would write on Facebook if I still had it #3 What I would write on … Continue reading What I would write on Facebook if I still had it #5
Depression. A word commonly used. For economical concepts. For meteorological terms. For mental health perspective. Due to its vague and broad description, I have never been able to figure the actual meaning of it. I have seen depression in its most extreme cases when my visited my dad every second week in the psychiatric hospital for two … Continue reading Why OTHERS have called me “depressed”
Better days are comming. There are called, Saturday and Sunday 😉 More of my "What I would write on Facebook if I still had it": Things I would write on Facebook if I still had it #1 (Here I also explain why I am doing these kind of posts, before you judge me as a … Continue reading What I would write on Facebook if I still had it #3
Christmas eve, 2013. The whole family is in front of the television watching Home alone. We are already now laughing for what is going to happen in 5 minutes. But what actually will happen in 5 minutes is a 10 minute "commercial break". "Let's just continue watching on Netflix", dad suggested. That was the last … Continue reading Have commercials taken it too far?
"Just seek professional help already instead of crying all the time". Talking about my mental issues has become more and more difficult over time. "Regular" people would tell me I will drown in self pity. Or give me the advice to just find a hobby to keep myself busy. And otherwise tell me to just … Continue reading After I agreed to seek professional help
Some things in life we are not "allowed" to say or do. It's not a law or rule. But let's call it "common sense". But then this one particular colleague tells me "Have you see this picture/video of my kids", I want to punch him. Not only he is showing me 10 pictures on daily basis, I also DON'T think … Continue reading No, I don’t think your children are cute
I glanced at the phone of my colleague. His WhatsApp was filled with heart and kiss smileys from his wife. I know this is supposed to be cute and adorable. But for me, it makes me cringe. Yet I am sure that most people find it odd that the smileys Jasper and I send each … Continue reading How do you express love?
Every morning there is a big decision to make. Do I stay half an hour longer in bed or do I spend that time on drinking my coffee in peace. But then again, 30 minutes of sleeping won't wake me up as my good friend "caffeine". Do you rahter choose coffee or a bit more sleep in the morning? … Continue reading Things I would write on Facebook if I still had it #1
Can you recognize yourself in this gif? If you said "YES!!" to that question, congratulations, you're now officially stuck in the rut of life. When I announced that we are moving to Denmark a few months ago, someone told me "I understand. You're young, you want to try something new.". When my manager shared to … Continue reading Are you more a specialist or generalist?
This post is for Nat. In her blog After the storm, she writes about putting a lot of effort to get a job. Only to find out that it was not for her and she quit. I promised her that I would share a personal, similar story. Only I didn't quit. I pushed through all … Continue reading To quit or not to quit
I have been told me I am easily offended or I let what others say bother me too much. How did this ever became an excuse for people throwing insulting comments at me?! Plus, I don't think this is true at all. How could I be? I am not a feminist. I (fake) laugh at not … Continue reading Is the world easily offended by anything and everything?
Having friends as a child was easy. You don't know the true meaning of friendship, but you're more than happy to spend time with your classmates or neighbourhood kids. Then, in the teenage years, it becomes more difficult. It's almost like you have to be approved to be someone's friend. If you are not a certain … Continue reading Friendship
Music is a powerful source. It can bring me to a Caribbean party on a snowy day. Or make me look forward for Christmas in the mid of July. It can calm me down after a long day. Or give me the energy to survive the last hour at work. Keeping my earphones in is … Continue reading When you forget your earphones
Ever since I first found out about Netflix I have watched countless amout of series. Some had several seasons. Others were shorter. But nevertheless the length, I would always find a way to get attached to the characters. I want to know about their background story, their personal preferences. I want to be their friend. (except … Continue reading About letting go
I remember how I used to push myself into getting straight A's at school. I couldn't accept the fact that I was simply not this type of student. Now I am sitting here, 8 years later, thinking about when anyone even asked for my grades. That was never. What if I had done my education without … Continue reading This too, shall pass
This morning I checked my freshly baked bank account. Yesterday I transferred a very small amount to it. We're speaking about 5 Euro's. But to my big surprise, I suddenly saw a much higher amount of money! First I danced around the house of happiness. But then read the actual description. My Danish is not … Continue reading Have you ever judged someone incorrectly because of their profession?
It has been a while since I did anything Doodle related, but I noticed some recent likes on my old post Breakfast doodles. So I decided to make a more digital replica of it and add some puns 😉 If you would like to know some of the methods and apps I am … Continue reading Breakfast Doodle puns (digital replica)
I went from an active blogger who spend her most her day on WordPress, to someone who only occasionally looks on WordPress. And all of that in just 2 months. Not only my blogging rhythm has changed. My whole life has after the move. I am no longer spending half my life in the car and … Continue reading Have I changed my mind about blogging?
"You're one of those women, aren't you?", some one told me once, "A woman who doesn't like women". I grinned. Although not necessarily true, I do see where that is coming from. Even though I grew up in a female dominated household, I always got along with my dad the best. From a young age he showed … Continue reading Do you prefer to spend time with the same or different gender?
In this time of year, a lot of people seem to be into "bullet journal doodling". Here is my contribution! I'd be happy to connect to more art / doodling sites here on WP. If you're on of them, drop your favorite post in the comment section and I will have a look and most … Continue reading Fall bullet journal Doodles
It was Goldie who introduced me to Creative Writing challenges. Now, I'm not as good G, but I do enjoy trying sometimes. And now I even took part of Carrot Ranch competition! We were being challenged to write exactly 99 words around the topic of Dialogue. My dialog with a song on the radio I could hide … Continue reading Creative Writing (CW): Dialogue – with a song.
I always considered myself an introvert without knowing what it ACTUALLY means. I just know that I am not loud, I hate being in the center of attention and I avoid large groups. "But still you are choosing a career as an Instructor?", a colleague asked me. Funnily enough, I do. I am definitely up for … Continue reading Some insights about Communication
Last week we had a realtor coming over. Before that, Jasper and I placed a bet. I thought he was going to lose money over the house. He thought it might have the same value. Mr. Realtor was more optimistic. "If you don't place the house for EUR xx.xxx more than the buying price, you … Continue reading When the Home turns into a House
Lately I have started to follow a lot of new blogs. I have a lot of time with very few things to do. So I read. But is reading and hitting "Like" enough? I like when people give me some appreciation in the form of a comment on my post. Surely others will acknowledge when … Continue reading Do new bloggers take the comment section serious enough?
If you have missed out the first one, check it out: Fun with puns The last one is based on Jasper and me. I always like to talk a bit when laying in bed, but of course the mister is already too tired! Which is your favorite?
I was nominated by Goldie, for the Awesome Impact Award. I hadn't heard of this one before, but it's probably one of the most interesting ones! Goldie talks about her first time being independent due to go to university. Obviously, the my road to independence was a difficult one too, but the entire experience was … Continue reading Awesome Impact Award: An Incident that impacted my life in a positive way
Today is one of my favorite days: Pasta day! Many of you will say that Pasta might not be a healthy choice, so when you eat it, it's best to enjoy to the fullest. 😉 And how to do that better than freshly prepare it yourself! I spoke with Goldie about it yesterday who said … Continue reading Recipe: Pasta from scratch
Process of DoodlingAlso I often get the question (OK OK, only Goldie just now 😉 ) what my process of doodling is. First of all, I don't use any fancy tools or pencils. So no brand recommendations. I use 3 apps, which are either for free or less than 5 euro's. And I use them … Continue reading October Doodles
This post is inspired by Goldie's Mental Health at work post, but also by me touching a broken glass this morning. I only realized its state when I saw a puddle of blood on the kitchen counter. It was a tiny cut on my finger and it didn't hurt. But the blood kept on flowing. It was … Continue reading What my OCD feels like (metaphor)
Last Christmas, my brother in law told a story about a girl he knew who wanted to do liposuction. I guess the 2nd glass of wine suddenly made me sharper than usual. "Wait! How old is this "girl" of yours?". I was a bit suspicious because he is somewhere in this late forties. "50", he answered. … Continue reading About age
Last bits of the jobI have about 2 weeks left of my current job. When I started, this role and project were new. I did everything from scratch. I am a proud "mommy" and feel very responsible of my "baby". Slowly but steadily I have watched several people taking some of my tasks. I try … Continue reading Things I don’t care about, yet care so much about
Recently I have seen quite some posts about "Motivation". What motivates you to get out of bed? To make your bed? What motivates to you drive to work? To actually work? What motivates you to cook? And clean afterwards? This is something that I seem to differ from many others. I don't really need motivation. … Continue reading Do you need motivation?
I wanted to my Doodles a deeper dimension and how else to do that than with puns! So here are the first two. If you can think of more, let me know in the comments 🙂 Of course this can be bought on your favorite item via the Emotion Doodles store.
Back in the days, I wanted to become "big" on Instagram. Not because the followers and likes would boost my ego. But I honestly think I am funny. Not so much when you meet me in person however. I am usually very quiet. My strength lays in the short written stories or a capturing picture. … Continue reading Why I want followers
I am continuing yesterday's story with little snippets of my road to Independence. For a more background information, please read: Road to independence: First time doing laundry on my own So today's story is about my first alcoholic drink. My parents were quite strict and made me promise that I wouldn't drink before finishing university. … Continue reading Road to independence: first time alcohol
Now that the move to Denmark is getting closer, my memories of my first experience there, are getting more vivid. I was 20 when I stepped into the train for my first long, independent journey. Even my dad teared up when I hugged my parents goodbye. But I bravely ensured them everything was going to … Continue reading Road to independence: First time doing laundry on my own
It's been about 2 -3 weeks ago since I told my employer that I will be leaving. It's not the first time I have done something like that. But no matter how much hated or liked my job, I have always been very nervous to break the news. The only good thing was that after … Continue reading After I said I am leaving
I never understood why Breakfast is called the way it is. "Breaking" it down it's Break and Fast. So that a fast break? I like taking my time during breakfast when I have the time. Every now and then I like to recreate what you usually would see in a hotel. What would you like … Continue reading Breakfast doodles
Thursday evening 11 in the night. We were supposed to be our flight, but our mood was ruined by a 1 hour delay. People seemed annoyed, tired and desperate for a shower. I sure was since I finished my book and wanted to save some battery on my phone. Time for some old fashion entertainment. … Continue reading Do you think people notice you?
In about 3.5 months it's New Year's eve. Anyone feeling anxious already? 😉 Although most people consider the 1st of January to be the start of new beginnings, for me, September was always that month. You get to charge your battery during a long summer vacation and then it's time for fresh books and other … Continue reading September Doodles
After a long and stressful day, I didn't think anything could cheer me up. Not even Jasper who tried with some comforting words. We were driving towards home. I stared out the window and that's when I saw him. The cutest thing: a puggy dribbling down the street. If you know me the slightest bit, … Continue reading The little things in life
Some of you might have noticed I have been quite active on the blogosphere lately. I have too much time lately 😉 But tomorrow we are flying to Denmark to look at some apartments. I won't be bringing my laptop, so you get a little break from me 😉 I will be leaving you with … Continue reading Is coffee your cup of tea?
Technically, if you suddenly decide to take a day off, your manager is not allowed to ask you for the reason. They do have to approve it, so there will always some sort of awkwardness. Sometimes it a simple "my best friend is going to get married" or "family thing". But if you take a … Continue reading How anonymous would you like to be?
Some words have different meanings. The first time I realized the other meaning of "pretty" was when someone told me I was "pretty smart". "Pretty AND smart?", I joked He winked. Compliments. I always hope to receive one every now and then. But then when I do, they make me uncomfortable. I start blushing. Should I … Continue reading About compliments
YouTuber 1: It's OK becuase it's modern music YouTuber 2: you mean: because* YouTuber 1: I dont need you to correct me!! Youtube 2: don't*. I do when its wrong. I only want to teach you. Me: You mean, it's* How often do you feel the need to correct others when they are wrong? In the case … Continue reading In case you plan to correct people
On my first workday ever, my colleague advised me to keep my email open at all times. I gave her a peculiar look. This made no sense. I checked my personal email maybe twice a week. Who would be sending me all these emails? Well well well. How young and innocent I was. 😉 I … Continue reading About emails
If you have been following me for a while, you might have noticed that somehow I always end up in a job where I become unhappy.I hate say it, but lately I have been crying a lot because of my job.The positive thing is that I absolutely love the actual job.I love teaching, interacting with … Continue reading Dear Manager, don’t you realise?